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Naughty Vs. Nice Self-Talk

Self-talk is the internal dialogue we have with ourselves, which greatly impacts our thoughts, emotions, and actions. It can be categorized into two types: negative (naughty) and positive (nice) self-talk. Negative self-talk involves negative thoughts and criticism towards oneself, while positive self-talk consists of positive affirmations and encouragement.

Naughty/negative self-talk often stems from insecurities, past failures, or societal pressures. It manifests as harsh self-criticism, doubts in one's abilities, and a constant focus on shortcomings. This type of self-talk can be detrimental to one's mental health and overall well-being. It erodes confidence, hinders personal growth, and creates a cycle of negativity.

On the other hand, nice/positive self-talk is empowering and uplifting. It involves acknowledging achievements, embracing strengths, and nurturing a positive mindset. It helps build resilience by fostering optimism and motivation to overcome challenges. By replacing negative thoughts with positive ones, individuals can cultivate a healthier relationship with themselves as well as set healthier boundaries with other people’s behaviors.

Practicing positive and healthy self-talk requires conscious effort but yields numerous benefits. It boosts confidence levels by reminding individuals of their capabilities. Moreover, it enhances problem-solving skills as it encourages exploring different perspectives rather than dwelling on mistakes or setbacks. 

The way we talk to ourselves has a profound impact on our lives. Choosing between positive or negative self-talk determines whether we nurture negativity or foster positivity within ourselves. By consciously shifting towards a kinder inner dialogue filled with encouragement and support instead of criticism and doubt, we can unlock our true potential for personal growth and happiness.

So this holiday season, have you been Naughty or Nice? 

**If you’ve noticed being more naughty or feeling naughtier towards yourself, please reach out to us to help you become kinder towards yourself for 2024. We can help you to achieve a new resolution with the start of just one phone call and/or refer you to other’s who may better fit your needs.


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